Grading Relationships like Exam Papers


Men are cheats and ladies are not loyal. The anthem everyone seems to be chanting. Since the trust is already compromised at the onset, both parties sleep with one eye opened. Snooping through each other’s phone, second guessing every response given and deliberately setting traps for each other to see if they would fall into…

When Your Husband says, ‘Call Me Daddy.’


A man’s ego is intricately woven into his DNA, I believe.  An expert once said that an essential key to a successful relationship is knowing how to massage his ego and making him feel appreciated for all his efforts, whatever they may be. But what happens when he sees the ego-pampering as a ticket to…

What Is Your Addiction? 


We usually refer to an addict as someone who is over dependent on a substance or activity. Although the word also means being ardently devoted to something (WordWeb) which could be a good thing, it is usually carries a negative connotation. Well maybe, it’s because of how the victims make such dramatic statements with their…

Who Do You Trust?


#DailyPost ‘I trust you’; Sounds very complimentary; But bears a heavy responsibility; Being entrusted with someone’s confidence; Is not to be taken lightly;

The Prayer of a Sorry Ex


It is always said one doesn’t fully appreciate the value of something or someone until it or he/she is gone. We also say that good is the enemy of great; and even when we find what is best, our eyes still can’t stop looking for something better. Some people find amazing partners with whom they…

Lost Love Between Daddy and Daughter 


I sometimes wonder what happens when a man enters the fatherhood stage: the little to no expression of love towards their children. The lucky ones get some tough love; as least he’s showing some affection. It’s better than none at all.  I wonder because before they became fathers and even husbands, they must have been…

‘Dating’ God


Thanks to technology and the proliferation of social networking sites, one doesn’t have to wait to be approached the old school way and asked out. People can take their social fate into their hands and find for themselves some suitable dates online. Just like every coin has two sides and everything has its pros and…

Love wins What exactly?


Meet Sandy, a lovely young lady born into and raised by a staunch Christian family. She grew up with great enthusiasm to do God’s work and thus joined her parents in their evangelistic travels. Doing God’s work was a priority and she assured herself that nothing would separate her from God. But her life was…

Would You Rather #14: Die before or after your spouse in old age?


Death is the phase in life that no one looks forward to but can’t avoid thinking about anyway. Every movie, series and song no matter how captivating comes to an end eventually. The good thing with them however is that we can relive the ecstatic experience of savoring them by replaying them countless times. But…

Face-to-face or Over the phone?


A little while ago, our network of relationships was limited to the friends we kept in school, the colleagues we had at work and the family we were born in. Whenever a friend or relative went overseas, it was more or less like he/she is no more part of the network since it was too…