Closure-we all need it. It takes one free honest conversation to let everything out; the suppressed anger, hurt, fears and whatever emotions we try so hard to bury within us. A lot of things happen in one day and before we can find time to deal with them, another day arrives. So we end up piling them up in our hearts and minds so much so that we become some kind of time bomb; just waiting to explode.
Thank God for friends, who make us speak out how we feel and thus liberate ourselves from the bondage of pent-up emotions. From time to time, we all need that special time to let it all out and get the chance to heal ourselves from the pain we’ve been hoarding within us all this while.
We all do have busy schedules but it is needful and healthy to have some occasional time to talk; just talk. Talk about what you think is going on around you, talk about how you’re being treated at school or at work; just let it all out. And listen to whatever observations your friends have made about you. You may think a certain attitude doesn’t matter; but it may affect your inner circle more than you think.
You’ve been blessed with the gift of friends. Make good use of your friends-let them help you become the better person you were born to be. It only takes good friends to bring about closure.
Tell your friends how much they mean to you…
I love you Amanda and Maame, you mean more to me than you know!